It's official.
My brother is gone.
It's really a bittersweet feeling. Of course, I'm sad that he's gone. But my family and closet friends know that this will be a very good experience for him. Long story short, him and I have always had a weird relationship. We're not very close, but we are in a sense.
We've always been very protective of one another, but in a good way, meaning we want what's best for the other, but that person may not always see it. Am I making sense? I'm not so sure?
We're polar opposites on the spectrum, though. I'm very open-minded, I like new things, change, meeting new people, I'm social, outgoing, and goofy. He tends to be close-minded, likes structure, likes the "known", social, can be overly possessive, and insecure. I'm not bashing him in any way. That's just who he is. Others may not like him because of certain traits, but I love him all the same. He's my brother.
All in all, I'm thinking this move will make us appreciate one another more. Although we are more distant, we may become closer. Absence does make the heart grow fonder. I believe that in any situation, not just for romantic relationships.
I unfortunately was not able to go help move him to Minnesota, but my parents got some pictures of his new city. I cannot wait to visit! :)
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